I find it is very difficult for me to write any good things about myself when i write my resume or curriculum vitae. Especially when i need to write about my personal qualities (mau pi promote yang diri tu bagus bah kan so la susah ni..). If people compliment me of my good work or my look that day, i feel grateful and appreciate it but at the same time i feel ashamed of myself. Maybe too low self-esteem. Need to gain some more self-confident and self-esteem
Okay, i find this article is very motivating and i hope it will help you guys too if you face the same problem as mine. I am in the process of accepting myself of who i am and be grateful of it. Giving VALUE to myself!
Consider the following acts of personal acknowledgment:
You know your boundaries and you hold them. If necessary, you enforce them. And you keep the delicate balance between boundaries that are too rigid or too flexible.
You routinely ask yourself, "What do I need? What do I want?" Then you act on the answers to those questions.
If you experience moments of doubt, you solicit outside feedback. You ask friends and colleague to tell you about your strengths.
You think well of yourself. If you (or your inner critic) make unkind statements, you disregard them. This is different than reflecting on what worked and didn't work in a given situation, finding out that you've hurt someone's feelings or deciding to do something differently in the future. People who value themselves are not perfect — they do make mistakes and harbor human blindspots.
Read more about this article at Give Yourself the Gift of Value by Claudette Rowley.
So value yourself — it's universally beneficial. <--------- i think i really and MUST DO THIS!!!!
Lets give ourself a GIFT OF VALUE guys!!!