Love or Hate

Express our feeling to the one we love is easy or not so easy? I may say that, it will depends on the condition and situation. Or perhaps the relationship current conditions whether it is between you and your spouse, couple, father, mother, sister, brother, niece, nephew, best friends, friends or even our enemy.

As for me, it was so difficult for me to express my feeling to my love ones (mum, dad, sis, bro, best friend, bf, friend) when there is hatred in my heart. Means that my heart is not full of love but hate. Aiyah...i can feel that it is so difficult to express love to others. So, the best thing is to forgive my enemies first. Ask for forgiveness from God to fill my heart with His gentle love. Only then i can say that i can share love with others. Hmmm..

Here is some tips that i found in Saida Online Magazine about how to express your love to the one you love. This tips is more to couples. Just see whether it suits you or not. Have a blessed Sunday!

Love is not about giving or receiving gifts but about sharing each other’s feelings and letting each other know how much you really care.

You need to be romantic, creative, and unique. The best way to show someone you really care is by words and how your actions make them feel special. You need to say something coming from the heart and show them from your soul. Love them for who they are and not for who you are.

Think about all the great moments that you have shared with that person for inspiration. If you think you won't remember, write it down or even better, make it into a poem.

Try to think of words that can describe what your feelings towards him/her are. The happiness you feel when you are around him/her and the necessity you have to being with him/her.

Find a place where you'll be comfortable and alone.

Finally, just say it. Don't try to think of the perfect time to say it because sometimes it will never come out, if you become too nervous. If you didn't prepare anything to say, just speak your heart out.