Frustration is a common emotional response to opposition. Related to anger and disappointment, it arises from the perceived resistance to the fulfillment of individual will. The greater the obstruction, and the greater the will, the more the frustration is likely to be. Causes of frustration may be internal or external. In people, internal frustration may arise from challenges in fulfilling personal goals and desires, instinctual drives and needs, or dealing with perceived deficiencies, such as a lack of confidence or fear of social situations. Conflict can also be an internal source of frustration; when one has competing goals that interfere with one another, it can create cognitive dissonance. External causes of frustration involve conditions outside an individual, such as a blocked road or a difficult task. While coping with frustration, some individuals may engage in passive-aggressive behavior, making it difficult to identify the original cause(s) of their frustration, as the responses are indirect. A more direct, and common response, is a propensity towards aggression. [Nah kau, siap dengan maksud dari Wikipedia lagi..]Why suddenly talking about frustration? This December quite a few things that i plan did not happen according to my plan. (Sob sob sob....). That is why the feeling is not that good lah this December. Listed below is the causes of my frustration (Huh... siap ada list lagi pok...):
- My holiday for this coming Christmas and New Year supposed to be 10 days started from 22nd Dec 2010 until 4th Jan 2011 and i am planning to drive back home (not using flight la). But because of some reason i have to change my plan and only going back home for New Year and celebrate my Christmas here (sob... sob.. sob.. again..)...
- My colleague and i have planned to have a hide out to Fatt Choi Plantation Stay on this coming public holiday, 7th Dec but i have to drop out from the trip and the sad thing is that, they all seems to be canceled the trip as well (napala dorang nda mau pegi ja..walaupun sya nda dapat pigi??.. huhuhu..)
- Contacted my friend in UMS and asks for a help from her friend on something that is very important to be completed, but again, not happen as planned. He busy with his lab work and also conference coming early this month (maybe now la tu?)... So, i am stuck here not going anywhere and don't know what else i can do?
With Love,
Little Rose
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